Relationships nowadays are rife with pain, hurt and distrust rather than love, peace, a sense of fulfillment and such beautiful harmony that tends to draw us in, in the first place. More often, the parties leave each other broken, abused and in serious hurt, often leading to statements like, 'all men are pigs', 'women are just heartless gold diggers' etc. How can this be avoided? What's the root cause of this seemingly indestructible virus creeping into our relationships?